a passover seder is a meal where you celebrate freedom, ask questions, and tell an ancient story
at this point, children traditionally ask four questions:
instead of an answer there is a story:
joseph brought his family to egypt
they were enslaved by a pharoh
moses came to free them
the pharoh refused
god made plagues
pour the second glass of wine and count the ten plagues while putting ten drops of wine on your plate:
blood
dam
דָם
frogs
tzfardeiya
צְפַרְדֵעַ
lice
kinim
כִּנִים
animals
arov
עָרוֹב
pestilence
dever
דֶבֶר
boils
shechin
שְׁחִין
hail
barad
בָּרָד
locusts
arbeh
אַרְבֶה
darkness
hoshech
חוֹשֶׁך
death of the first-born
makkot bechorot
מַכַת בְכוֹרוֹת
they fled to the dessert where they wandered for 40 years
stuff happened
they got to jerusalem
wash your hands again
eat some horse-raddish
eat a hillel sandwich (haroset + horse-raddish on matzo)
eat
at this point children may have hidden the afikomen if so a reward may need to be offered for its safe return before it is eaten
pour the third glass of wine and say blessings after the meal
at this time the door is opened to allow Elijah the prophet to enter and drink wine
sing songs and pour the fourth glass of wine
sing more songs